it is not about who is busy and who is not. everyone has their work to do. not only army guys are busy... if you really want something to be done, theres surely time for that. why push the responsibility around? it is not the 1st time. do we need to separate everything so clearly and say YOU ARE THE ORGANISER THIS TIME. maybe to me, things should not be this way.just 2 simple things : place and time.

if we are friends, do we need to complain that whoever is not doing the job and blah blah blah? it only takes a few smses, or a few minutes of time. i m ok with it. i dont mind suggesting the place and time for the gathering. the problem is... theres no need to keep telling us that who and who are busy. i m sure, all of us are busy. theres no need to compare or to push the responsibility around. i m just asking for suggestion because it is a gathering. if people are not happy with the gathering in the end, they complain again. SO. i think there should be a discussion. never ask 1single person to do all the things, and complain about him or her afterwards.

i have time to do a proposal, but i dont think we need it. maybe this is not the way i will do things. just my opinion. no matter what, i will still discuss with cis about the time and place.
purely personal opinion. no offence.